Many people think too much about this topic that what if my life partner is not a virgin? Should I marry him/her if he/she is not a virgin?
Well, this question's answer depends on one's level of thinking and their requirements. Normally all of us think and expect our life partner to be a virgin and definitely, this thinking is good for both physical health and mental health perspective. Generally, those who are virgin will not have Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD's) and their mind may not be occupied by feelings for others by past relationships. Well even if he/she is not virgin then you can still get out of this thinking and be normal. Just ask few questions to yourself.
What problem do I have if my life partner were happy in past and enjoyed sex?
If he/she is virgin and you are the first to have sex with him/her then he/she will not remain virgin anymore. So from next time, you will not find your life partner virgin anymore and still, he/she is your life partner. In the same way, if your life partner is not virgin then think that you were the first person to have sex with him/her even you weren’t. It is difficult to think in this way but you can try it. If you can change the mentality, then you can overcome these painful feelings.
So, what should be the decisive factor while choosing the life partner?
Decisive factors cannot be common to all. It depends on the requirements and thinking of persons that what is more important for him/her. Ask yourself what is the more important point for you among these listing below.
1. Character: - Good character is an important thing that everyone should have. To live in good condition and with prestige, one should be of good character.
2. Career: - Love is not everything. Love with the fulfillment of basic needs is everything. So one should have a good or career or an average.
3. Behavior: - Behavior of a person is an important factor which determines what type of people will surround you with what types of offers.
4. Earning: - Earning is important because it gives bread and butter to the family. But running after money by leaving everything behind is not good for the relationship.
5. Looks: - Obviously looks matters. No one is willing to be with the cunning life partner. But making looks as a decisive factor in choosing life partner can never be advisable.
6. Physical fitness: - We all know "Health is wealth". Going after hot, sexy, tall, slim etc. cannot be the sole decisive factor.
7. Care: - Who doesn't want caring life, partner? This is the most important factor to be considered.
8. Name and fame: - Name and fame of life partner can be important but it cannot be the first priority decisive factor to be considered.
9. Virginity: - If you are able to find virgin life partner it’s good but hunting for the virgin life partner is just waste of time.
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Above points are just for example. You may find many additional points which could be decisive factors for you. Before you decide on anything, make yourself sure that you are going for what you want. Choose that person as a life partner which suits you the most and never try to find everything you need in your life partner because no one on this earth is perfect. You have to compromise in every field of your life. So don't ever try to find the best life partner as per your need but obviously, you can try to bring the qualities in your life partner.
Conclusion: - Don't ever try to search for the perfect person as a life partner in your life. And don't make virginity as a decisive factor in the selection of your life partner.
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